Thursday, March 24, 2016

Ode to Liberty "Libby" Sarris 1927-2016

My dear aunt Liberty "Libby" Sarris "left" this morning (as the Greek people put it when someone passes away), details still coming in to me here in Thessaloniki. On the one hand I'm very sad, especially since I won't be in Stockton for her funeral. But on the other hand rather relieved that she is at rest. She even managed to go back to her apt yesterday for one day after 2 months of rehab!

Libby or Lib -- Greek name: Eleftheria -- was essentially the sister I never had, especially when I was young and needed someone to bum around with that was not my parents. It was not Ok to hang out too much with teenagers my own age, but it was very Ok to go somewhere with Thea...the boys were treated differently, what else is new? So we went to Greece together in 1962, before that was such a common occurrence -- quite the memorable adventure! AND I got all the hand-me-down sweaters!

There may have also been some hijinks around important baseball, football or basketball games -- especially when rooting for the Stagg Delta Kings, Pacific Tigers, San Francisco Giants or 49ers. I gave up on the Giants years ago, but Thea was rewarded with multiple championships and visits to ATT Park. Her favorite player overall might have been Joe Montana, but Bill Walsh was God. Snoopy was the mascot to end all mascots.

And, yes, she took my brothers and me to the last Beatles USA concert in Candlestick Park circa 1969 -- not to mention to hear the Rolling Stones at the Cow Palace and some others at that rather smoky Fillmore Auditorium. (She also had many good times/trips with her pal, Stella Kouretas).

Let's not forget Liberty Sarris'  50+ years of dedicated service to the Stockton Unified School District -- beginning at Stockton High in 1947 and then primarily at the then newly-minted AA Stagg Senior High...back in the days when that school was way out there, nothing past the student parking lot to speak of. She was The Registrar and pretty much indispensable. (And I, personally, never got away with anything!)

Upon her retirement Libby received many accolades from her colleagues, the school district (for "Outstanding and Exemplary Service"), and the State Legislature -- and was called back repeatedly to help here and there. Something about institutional memory, no iPads required. She was also my main source of family info...and now it's the end of an era for the Sarris Family in Stockton.

In her last days, Thea often worried about her older and now deceased sister, Angeline..."I can't find your mother!" Or she insisted that Jell had just left or was in the next room. Or that Yiayia had been by. On the one hand, she knew full well that they were not actually there. Or, she may have known something we don't...Love you, Thea!

1 comment:

  1. Αιωνία η μνήμη της Ελευθερίας. Great photos! I didn't realize she was your mom's sister. She was a very cool Aunt, thanks for sharing.